Lady timer 'being a lady' (all you need to know about being a lady)

Being a lady is practically different and a spectacular stage that make you not a lady with class but a responsible and unique adult.

The transgression from being the girl, everyone in the neighborhood known to being the one which children and neighbors will refers to as "Aunts" instead of your normal name is a stage in life which most of time we sometimes misses and jump to be a woman.

Being a lady is a platform that transform that girl ion you to a lady, a lady with class, integrity a lady who
don't depend on any dude be it financially, morally or other wise, be proud to be a lady.

"Being a lady"

today our topic is "transforming into a lady"

Usually when a girl is born, they call her infant baby, she grew up then people refers to her as a girl, at this stage in her life she depend on every one for virtually everything, but a she progresses, she begins to have that thought and vision of who she really wants to be, at this stage she begins to even imitate those she want to be like, at this stage she feels she knows what is right but in reality her childishness is just playing a fast one on her, this stage it's very important for a guild-terns to be up and doing, the struggle between being a child and an adult begins to in tween, crucial mistakes are made at this time if not by the help of almighty.

Being a lady,in our continent, millions of women and girls have been, and are being prevented from realizing their full potential as human beings, weather it being a possibility of being writers and artists,doctors and other professionals, athletes or anything else outside the traditional role assign to women, making an outstanding decision to stand up and speak for your self. This demonstrate attitude and believe has lead to the death of a lady in you even before the girl is mature, most women in Africa never get the opportunity of enjoying their lady hood before entering the next stage which is being a woman. Each one come with a variant sensibility and view on the patriarchal nature of society in which men dominate and subjugate women and hinder balance in the gender equation. Don't kill the lady in you, give her the chance to shine and glow so that you, your family and the world at large could benefit from. 

                                            

  photo courtesy by Mateus Lunardi Dutra